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Sir was somewhat of a known quantity to me. I d read his book,
The Master s Manual, and the columns he wrote for Drummer and
International Leatherman. Having done so gave me clues to his style
of dominance. His reputation in the leather community ensured a certain
trustworthiness and responsibility.
Beyond the initial chemistry we clearly enjoyed the fact that we
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were able to effectively communicate what we felt we wanted and this
allowed us to quickly strip away the unimportant and work on those
things about which we needed to reach agreement. Does it work this
way for everyone? No, generally not, but the approach is sound and if
you can keep from getting lost in the fantasy of slavery you can focus
on the things that will lay the foundation for a similar confidence.
Our lifestyle is a puzzle to the outsider. They don t understand
what it is that makes it interesting and satisfying for us and it isn t
necessary that they do. Ultimately the people we can count on will move
beyond the puzzle and tag it in a way with which they can deal. In any
case their acceptance is far more important than their understanding.
This acceptance will come once they see the magic of your dance and
the sense of fulfillment it brings to both of you.
After Reading Activities
Using your journal, write a 1,000 (or more) word essay describing
your future life as a slave. What do you do? Where do you live? What
do you say? What is required of you? How does it feel? Let your
imagination go wild. Make sure you save what you have written for
later.
Write your reflections on the questions found at the beginning
of this chapter: How do I have to change to be what I want to become?
How will you be different when you are a slave? What actions and
decisions will in fact transform you from who you are now to what you
seek to become?
Use your journal to write the names, email addresses, and
phone numbers of possible references. Contact them for permission
to use them as such. Assure them of your discretion.
If you don t have any references, what can you do to create
(find) them? Ask people at your next munch, club meeting, or party
what they do about referencing. Use their answers to develop a list as
to how you will develop references for yourself.
Pretend that you have received an email from an applicant who
says that he has felt betrayed by people he has met on-line and would
like some assurances that you are a trustworthy person. Write a letter
in your journal that you think will allay his fears by proving that you are
trustworthy. Show it to a friend and ask for comments.
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Sir was somewhat of a known quantity to me. I d read his book,
The Master s Manual, and the columns he wrote for Drummer and
International Leatherman. Having done so gave me clues to his style
of dominance. His reputation in the leather community ensured a certain
trustworthiness and responsibility.
Beyond the initial chemistry we clearly enjoyed the fact that we
30
were able to effectively communicate what we felt we wanted and this
allowed us to quickly strip away the unimportant and work on those
things about which we needed to reach agreement. Does it work this
way for everyone? No, generally not, but the approach is sound and if
you can keep from getting lost in the fantasy of slavery you can focus
on the things that will lay the foundation for a similar confidence.
Our lifestyle is a puzzle to the outsider. They don t understand
what it is that makes it interesting and satisfying for us and it isn t
necessary that they do. Ultimately the people we can count on will move
beyond the puzzle and tag it in a way with which they can deal. In any
case their acceptance is far more important than their understanding.
This acceptance will come once they see the magic of your dance and
the sense of fulfillment it brings to both of you.
After Reading Activities
Using your journal, write a 1,000 (or more) word essay describing
your future life as a slave. What do you do? Where do you live? What
do you say? What is required of you? How does it feel? Let your
imagination go wild. Make sure you save what you have written for
later.
Write your reflections on the questions found at the beginning
of this chapter: How do I have to change to be what I want to become?
How will you be different when you are a slave? What actions and
decisions will in fact transform you from who you are now to what you
seek to become?
Use your journal to write the names, email addresses, and
phone numbers of possible references. Contact them for permission
to use them as such. Assure them of your discretion.
If you don t have any references, what can you do to create
(find) them? Ask people at your next munch, club meeting, or party
what they do about referencing. Use their answers to develop a list as
to how you will develop references for yourself.
Pretend that you have received an email from an applicant who
says that he has felt betrayed by people he has met on-line and would
like some assurances that you are a trustworthy person. Write a letter
in your journal that you think will allay his fears by proving that you are
trustworthy. Show it to a friend and ask for comments.
31
Copies of
Becoming a slave
may be ordered at
http://www.leatherviews.com
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